Build Your Self Confidence

Lack of self-confidence is a common phenomenon. Self-confidence is at the root of all accomplishments. Lack of self-confidence makes you somber. Your enthusiasm slowly dies down. You indulge in self-denial.

Lack of self-confidence can be overcome by an introspection and determination to build self-belief. This self-belief soon grows into self-confidence. Self-confidence facilitates prosperity. As a person of self-confidence, you are an invaluable component of the society. Otherwise, you become insignificant to yourself as well as to the society.

How to gain Self Confidence

Self-confidence is driven by how you see yourself. First, you need to believe in your ability to do things. That helps you take well-deliberated decisions all by yourself. You will meet adversities squarely. You know you can be responsible for what you do. Building self-confidence is easy, as long as you are willing and determined – much like a horse’s willingness to drink water.

Each is talented in one’s own domain. So are you. You lack in self-confidence because you have never looked at yourself as a person of talent and potential. To get over the problem you need to be positive and earnest. Remember, you are a pack of energy in a state of idleness. Evaluate your own self as critically as you would evaluate others.

If you want to build your self-confidence, just do a little exercise. Compare yourself with an achiever of your choice. You will see that his first attribute is his courage, which stems from his knowledge of whatever he does. When he ventures into something, like others he too is apprehensive of losing, of being laughed at, of failure. But he is unlike others where his self-belief encourages him to just move ahead, unmindful of all possibilities.

You can see failure in two ways. When you have no self-belief, you feel bad about what went wrong and feel discouraged. With self-belief, you see failure as a step closer to success. You look at why things went wrong. What went right reaffirms your ability to do things right. A failure gives you more knowledge. It is a chapter well-learnt for you. It implants self-confidence in you.

Now you know that the difference between success and failure is self-belief. Believe in yourself; in your abilities; and you will be a stunningly different person, who is out to conquer the skies. You will be self-confidence personified.